閑談 -- 也許。。。也許。

夕陽無限好，已近黃昏時。

今天在食閣那吃碗甜品，一位年約七十多歲的瘦小老婦，

她一個人坐那圓桌邊，桌上放了一個水壺，應該她自己的，

在她坐的身旁另張椅子上放了一袋東西，手里一直弄著張小紙。

買了甜品正想坐下，聽到她用潮州話說【現在才吃呀？】

 我坐在另張圓桌邊，能坐上十個人那種大圓桌約70" 加上我那張，

和她對坐的隔離有十尺，在我后面的那桌是張兩位印度婦女。

知道她是對著說，我對她微笑，坐了下來，她又説了

【哦，我剛吃飽了，我吃最後那檔的飯，我吃鷄肉和飯】

午飯時間已過了很久，食閣里食客們零零散散，我邊吃邊聽她說

【我的女兒說要來，來了要睡哪裏？去她二姨那了】

我打量她的身上的衣著和外觀，她是很瘦小，但還算整齊、乾净。

也許老人家需要有人陪她聊天或聽她述説些事。

【那檔賣印度飯的是新開的，沒有生意，太貴了。】

看她樣子，應該是住附近，我開口問她：

“  之前那檔是賣什麽的？” 我想陪她聊聊。

【賣印度飯咯，你看沒有顧客，我吃過，太貴了】

“ 在這印度檔來開之前，是賣什麽的？”  我提高聲量重複我的話。

【 太貴了，五塊錢的飯，太貴了，所以沒有顧客】

也許相隔《太遠了》聽不清楚 或 也許她老人家衹在她自己的世界裏，

甜品喫完了。 我走了。

邊走邊在想，十出年后，我也大概是這個歲數了。

我也會在咖啡座等《人》回來嗎 ？  會有人來嗎？

我也會這樣嗎？

也許。也許。等人的那個已經不在了。。。。

Will... I  .....
will ... I ....



This afternoon I went out to get somethings, passby a foodcourt,

I brought a bowl of dessert and found a place to sit down enjoy my dessert.

Outside the foodcourt,  an old lady sat infront of me at different table.

 A ten person round table and I just sat at another round table next to hers.

We facing each other about 10' feet away.

She was alone with a water bottle and a bag beside her.

She talk to me in Teochew language:  【 So, now then you eat?】

I know she was talking to me as behind me was a round table with 2 Indian ladies.

【 I taken my lunch, I brought chicken and rice at the last store】she kept telling me.

【 My daughter said she is coming, but where she going to sleep, no room for her
     so she going to her aunt place.】

【 The Indian stall is new, I ate once, but too expensive.】

“ What was the stall selling before this Indian stall? "

 I tried to have some conversation with her to keep company.

Some old folks are too lonely and like to talk to strangers.

【 The Indian stall got no business, he selling too expensive.】

Maybe it too far apart, she can't hear what  asked.

"  So, what was that stall selling before these Indian stall? "

I raised higher tone, but she seem never listened and repeating the same.

 She seem living  in her ownself  World .

So, after finished my dessert, I just went off.

Will I be the same like her,  in another ten over years time.

By then I almost the same age as what now she is .

Will I be waiting for somebody at the coffee-shop or food court?

Or by then , there is no such person exist......

分享 -- 水深則流緩，語遲則人貴

【水深則流緩，語遲則人貴】

尤其 生氣吵架時 準沒好話，

多少終身後悔的話，就是這樣出口的！

講話前先三思啊～

脾氣不好的人一定要看，讀懂了 你這輩子變「穩贏」了！

這頁是我從【facebook】下載，好有意識，就下載了。

人憤怒的那一個瞬間，智商是零
但常常 過一分鐘後恢復正常。
要如何讓脾氣用正確的管道抒發

吵架沒好話！
人的優雅關鍵在於控制自己情緒，
用嘴傷害人，是最愚蠢的一種行為。
 
我們的不自由，通常是因為來自內心的不良情緒左右了我們。
一個能控制住不良情緒的人，
比一個能拿下一座城的人更強大。 
 
我們花了兩年時間學說話，
卻要花數十年時間學會閉嘴。
可見：
說，是一種能力； 不說，是一種智慧。

懂得以下說話的藝術，
你這輩子已經成功一半囉
 
1. 急事，慢慢地說
遇到急事，如果能沉下心思考，然後不急不躁地 把事情說清楚，
會給聽者留下穩重、不衝動的印象， 從而增加他人對你的信任度。
 
2. 小事，幽默地說
尤其是一些善意的提醒，用句玩笑話講出來，
就不會讓聽者感覺生硬，他們不但會欣然接受你的提醒，
還會增強彼此的親密感。
 
3. 沒把握的事，謹慎地說
對那些自己沒有把握的事情，如果你不說，
別人 會覺得你虛偽;如果你能措辭嚴謹地說出來，
會讓人 感到你是個值得信任的人。

 
4. 沒發生的事，不要胡說
人們最討厭無事生非的人，如果你從來不隨便臆測或胡說沒有的事，
會讓人覺得你為人成熟、有修 養，是個做事認真、有責任感的人。
 
5.做不到的事，別亂說
俗話說“沒有金剛鑽，別攬瓷器活”。
不輕易承諾 自己做不到的事，
會讓聽者覺得你是一個“言必信， 行必果”的人，願意相信你。
 
6. 會傷人的事，不能說
不輕易用言語傷害別人，尤其在較為親近的人之 間，
不說傷害人的話。這會讓他們覺得你是個善良的人，有助於維繫和增進感情。

 
7. 傷心的事，不要見人就說
人在傷心時，都有傾訴的欲望，但如果見人就說，
很容易使聽者心理壓力過大，對你產生懷疑和疏離。
同時，你還會給人留下不為他人著想，想把痛苦轉嫁給他人的印象。
 
8. 別人的事，小心地說
人與人之間都需要安全距離，
不輕易評論和傳播 別人的事，會給人交往的安全感。
 
9. 自己的事，聽別人怎麼說
自己的事情要多聽聽局外人的看法，
一則可以給 人以謙虛的印象
二則會讓人覺得你是個明事理的人。

 
10. 尊長的事，多聽少說
年長的人往往不喜歡年輕人對自己的事發表太多的評論，
如果年輕人說得過多，他們就覺得你不是一 個尊敬長輩、謙虛好學的人。
 
11. 孩子們的事，開導著說
尤其是青春期的孩子，非常叛逆，採用溫和又堅定的態度進行開導，
可以既讓孩子對你有好感，願意 和你成為朋友，又能起到說服的作用。
 
12 .夫妻的事，商量著說
夫妻之間，最怕的就是遇到事情相互指責，
而相互商量會產生“共情”的效果，能增強夫妻感情。

 
 

因爲覺得好有意識！就從FB那直抄過來，抱歉！

佛學班 -- 初級畢業了

昨晚是海印佛學班單元五，最后一堂課，
一共五個單元，總算初級畢業了。
一個單元半年，不知不覺就這樣過了兩年半。
想當初，我在懷疑自己的耐性，能否呆得了半年？

昨晚也預先報名了，過了農曆新年后的成長班。
很多同學都未報名，一些處於觀望態度，其實我也一樣。
我怕自己到時會給自己找藉口，舉棋不定而最終放棄。

其實一個禮拜才上那麽一堂，對我這不健康身軀的人來説
是比較累，沒有值趟車程，需塔車、轉車又換車還需要走一段路。

但其中的樂趣是我這一班，雖然大家還不是很熟絡的那種關係
但每一節課都在笑聲中度過，不知其他同學怎樣的感覺？
我呢，樂在其中，處了生病或太累，我盡量報到。

對于講儀里的課程，明白的程度或是師父講的内容、
佛法的瞭解多少，那是見仁見智，各人的智慧去看待和領悟。
有時候，課程有點乏或太深奧，我也照上不誤。


**【Buddhism is an education of wisdom not a religion.
       We do not worship the Buddha.
       We respect HIM as a teacher.
       His teaching enable us to leave suffering and attain Happiness.】
   

**【佛教是智慧的教育不是宗教。
       我们不拜世尊。
       我们尊重他为师。
       他的教学使我们能够离苦得乐。】

佛教已有兩千五百多年了，
南傳、北傳對世尊的基本佛教教誨意識都一樣，
衹不過，佛法在傳遞時間上和佛法傳遞到了那里，或多或少
都加會加上當地的風俗色彩和參插了當地原有的宗教信仰禮俗
而演變成今天多姿多彩的不同禮數的佛教。


當初上佛學班主要原因，是想多瞭解佛教，因爲我本身是名

【根深蒂固】的  “道教徒” 。


衹要我把《佛法》生活化。
            把《生活》佛法化。


清清楚楚 看著我的那顆心！

不一定要成爲 “純正” 的佛教徒。

我就是那個 或多或少 參插著了原有道教味的  《 佛教徒 》

我依舊是那個虔誠的道教徒帶著一顆《覺性、清靜心》。阿彌托佛！

我還是依舊那個我。

閑談 -- 電腦還真難搞

    傷腦經哦！

電腦很不合作！還是我老人家較不靈活。

最近很積極地在寫之前未完成的故事。我很 “衰況”  就是不好的性格，

一旦，腦子有想到什麼點子或情節就要立刻完成它。尤其最近靈感太妙了，

連連不斷浮現，離完結篇還有段時間。為了趕緊完成故事，搞到日夜癲倒。

深怕又遇到了什麼狀況或頭腦又想不起或空白就“被逼”要停下筆，

又不知要等到甚至麼時候才能繼續寫下去。

爲了在小説櫥窗  寫《故事》 卻無法抽出時間過來這邊。

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也很久沒上《臉簿》FACEBOOK,   今天將 第26 頁的 故事上載到 臉簿 去。

這幾天遇上大傷風  也許最近在流行感冒吧！ 身體有點支撐不了。。

每天，每天 都是病殃殃的，提不起勁，好無聊。整理一頁，卻花了幾個鐘。


打出來的字體大小很不一致，或幾頁的字體很大，有些小的很難閲讀。

我的個性喜歡 Perfect 一切完美，卻偏偏電腦老 ‘不合作’，很傷腦筋。

小説櫥窗那邊的系統《 setting》 還真難搞。 累了，不理了。。leave it as it is.

如上一次所説的，

设了《小说橱窗》陆续将故事慢慢地放上去，

一方面在修改一些故事情节，一方面还在摸索 整个部落格的 “框架” ，

其实有些部落格的 “电脑程序 ”，大致上还搞不清如何允用。

还再修改每一页的 排列的程序，以方便阅读.

閑談 -- 衣服穿反了

今天要到佛学院上课，从家出发，搭上了轻轨列车，再转地铁列车

来到必经的隧道时，有人从后方，轻轻地拍我手臂，转过去看看，

对方是个中年妇，细声地对我说道：【你的上衣穿倒反了】。

【哦！谢谢！谢谢你，难怪我今天总觉得哪里怪怪地。】

我连声地向她道谢。

还好我所穿的上衣，里外颜色都一样，除了衣服上的商标，

不明显得看出是穿倒反。不过还是很感激她 上前来告诉我。

我不会觉得不好意识或尴尬，也许我已上了年纪，
不会去在意，漏不漏气、歹势、或尴尬什么的。

到公厕里， 将上衣反过来，继续前往 去佛学院。

一路上，走着走着，回想到约二十年前，曾经在店里做生意时

也遇过一宗这样的情况。

当年，穿了反了上衣的人不是我，而是一名旅居在本地的印尼顾客

看过她好几回，经常在我们店外附近逛逛。（酒店就在对街）
看她穿着相当富裕的印尼华侨贵妇，当年她也有我现在这般年纪。

她上衣 穿反，当时怕她尴尬，我走上前小小声地告诉她。

却遭到对方很不礼貌的回礼和白眼！

是不同国度的礼俗有差，还是她下不了台的反应？。

自叹倒霉咯！遇到这样没礼貌的人。

夕阳无限好。

佛學班-- 禅宗特色,

禅宗特色；不立文字、直指人心，见性成佛。

禅宗特色；不立文字、直指人心，见性成佛。

禅宗顿教：无念、无住、无相。


无念： 保持在清醒的状态，清楚的看着念，
             不被念的生灭 所转而跟着动念，就是无念。

无住： 在任何时候，不生起执着的心。
            
无相： 放下一切相的执取，就能回归到清静的法体，
             外离一切相，名为无相。
             如【金刚经】说： “凡所有相，皆是虚妄。
              若见诸相非相，即见如来”。


时刻要拉回眼前，观察我们的身口意，清清楚楚

行、住、坐、卧、把心按住在清静的觉性中。

观察内心的情绪，往内心观照 ;   熄灭和清静

内心的烦恼。随时调整、改进观念和想法。




因缘生、因缘灭。

天地  无常   
生命  无常
万物  无常


时刻观察   

正念、觉性、清净、心王。



贪、嗔、痴、我执 、都 《放下》。

           
拉回眼前

       
梦游到了哪里、心飘到了哪里

记得！  拉回眼前，清清楚楚  自己身在何处？  自己在干什么？



贪、嗔、痴、我执 、都 《放下》。

My trouble tree.

These passage was copied down from my facebook.
It worth sharing around with lovely people
what a wonderful husband and father he is.

This Father Had A Rough Day.. What He Does When He Goes Home Is Unbelievable

POSTED 11 HRS COMMENTS

The carpenter I hired to help me restore an old farmhouse had just finished a rough first day on the job. A flat tire made him lose an hour of work, his electric saw quit, and now his ancient pickup truck refused to start. While I drove him home, he sat in stony silence. 

On arriving, he invited me in to meet his family. As we walked toward the front door, he paused briefly at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands. When opening the door he underwent an amazing transformation. His tanned face was wreathed in smiles and he hugged his two small children and gave his wife a kiss.

Afterward he walked me to the car. We passed the tree and my curiosity got the better of me. I asked him about what I had seen him do earlier.

"Oh, that's my trouble tree," he replied." I know I can't help having troubles on the job, but one thing's for sure, troubles don't belong in the house with my wife and the children. So I just hang them on the tree every night when I come home. Then in the morning I pick them up again."

He paused. "Funny thing is," he smiled, "when I come out in the morning to pick 'em up, there ain't nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before."

I will translate to chinese, once I free.....             

A burned Toast.

I tag this passage from Facebook.
I found it very touching, so just copy down to my blog.
I translate into Chinese，once I am free.
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When I was a kid, my Mom liked to cook food and every now and then.
 I remember she used to cook for us. One night in particular when she had made dinner after a long hard day at work, Mom placed a plate of bread jam and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I was waiting to see if anyone noticed the burnt toast. But Dad just ate his toast and asked me how was my day at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember I heard Mom apologizing to dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned toast."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your momma put in a long hard day at work today and she was really tired. And besides, A burnt toast never hurts anyone but harsh words do!"

You know, life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else.

What I've learned over the years, is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each others differences, is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship. Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Love the people who treat you right and have compassion for the ones who don't.

                                 I'd rather eat burnt food than hurt the one I love. 

Home sweet home

Happy family 

A lovely couple.

Novel showcase / 小说橱窗

点击 ‘ 莲花图 ’  歡迎到《小说橱窗》來做客。
Just click on this lotus N welcome to Novel showcase.

  

我的《小说橱窗》

從小我就喜歡寫 一些不成章的作品，
退休之後有了部落格也斷斷續續在寫，
年紀大了，無法長時間坐著，就很少再 ‘動筆 ’了。
剛辭了那份臨時工，閒來無事就想起了部落格，
而之前，有個 “多餘 ” 的商業部落格，一直空在哪，
許久沒更新了, 便將那部落格，改裝成我的《小說櫥窗》。

2009 剛設了部落格時， 興致勃勃也很積極的想寫故事。
但寫小說和寫現實的事件故事不一樣，
小說故事都要憑空想像，人物、故事要生動扣人心選。
語言貧乏，內容若空洞的話使人讀起來會感到興味索然。

寫小說，有時會遇到"瓶頸" 的階段，沒有了靈感就無法繼續寫。 。 。
兩年多前我將一個寫了一半的《故事》 送給他人，主要是遇到"瓶頸"
當時也因自己健康出了問題怕隨時隨地會 “撒手歸去”
畢竟花了許久時間， 斷斷續續寫了三十多頁，丟也不是，留著也惜。

目前，腦袋裡還沒有新故事，
剛好在整理屋子時 , 看到當初收藏故事的拇指驅動器（thumbdrive)
突然想將它再“拿回來” 呈現在自己部落格的《小說櫥窗》裡，

希望不會在道義上《違法》吧？畢竟已送給她人了。
希望不會引起不必要的“爭論” ，她是位著名編劇者。
我那不能抬出"檯面" 的故事，或許早已被 "投籃" 了。
我曾告訴她，東西送給她就是她的了，她如何處理，我無所謂。

現在自己 “ 健康 ” 還算過得去，閒來無事，心裏癢癢地又想寫點東西。

一時之間，不知從何 “下筆 ” 只好把早前 “ 送人” 的故事再來延續。

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《 Novel showcase 》

I love to write story when I was a young girl. 

2009 , after I retired, I started on Blogging , 

I been writing short essays, like some history of 

my childhood days and starting of my business.

Due to health physical problems that lead me 

can’t sit too long the hours infront of the computer.

Recently, I just resigned from my part-time job, 

Feeling bore sometime and start thinking of my blog .

I have an “extra ” website blog  which I setup for my online job,

And after I quit, it been empty for quite a period

Which now I converted it  into my  “Novel showcase”.

Writing fiction stories is different from writing reality stories.

Fiction stories should be interesting and fascinating with 
all kinds of  imagination. Half way thru creating the story,  

my mind get stuck with blank issue .

The whole story was in my mind but  then I was totally blank-out

and can't continue with it .

Few  weeks ago, when I was re-packing our house for painting,

I found the thumbdrive which I kept a story written few years back,

The fiction story which I written, was only half of the whole story 

and it given to a FB friend, she is a popular scriptwriter. 

During that period, I was uncertain of my own health.

So I sent out my halfway story to her, 
which been writing for quite sometimes.

It was a waste,  if I just leave it or delete it away.

It was a gift to her and she can do whatever she want .

Maybe I am not up to the standard, or maybe

it already ended up in the “trash basket” long time ago.

Now I have these greed of writing fiction stories again.

I will continue the  "given" story and finish the other half .

I hope She don't mind with me.

Or hope I do not create any “trouble" to her.

I took “back” the story and continue the remainder half.

I will try my best to make my fiction stories go on.

**  ( 17/05/2016) 

Oh Yeah!  I finally finished the story.   

歹势啦。。！ 等我慢慢摸索看看。。。

设了《小说橱窗》陆续将故事慢慢地放上去，
一方面在修改一些故事情节
一方面还在摸索 整个部落格的 “框架” ，
其实有些部落格的 “电脑程序 ”，大致上还搞不清如何允用。
 还再修改每一页的 排列的程序，以方便阅读.

看过市面上的《电子书》就像书籍那样容易翻阅。
Blogger 还无法成现 这样的程度，或许我较笨吧。
目前为止，待我慢慢摸索看看囖。。。。

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I love to write story when I was a young girl. 

2009 , after I retired, I started on Blogging , 

I been writing short essays, like some history of 

my childhood days and starting of my business.

Due to health physical problems that lead me 

can’t sit too long the hours infront of the computer.

Recently, I just resigned from my part-time job, 

Feeling bore sometime and start thinking of my blog .

I have an “extra ” website blog  which I setup for my online job,

And after I quit, it been empty for quite a period

Which now I converted it  into my  “Novel showcase”.

Writing fiction stories is different from writing reality stories.

Fiction stories should be interesting and fascinating with 
all kinds of  imagination. Half way thru creating the story,  

my mind get stuck with blank issue .

The whole story was in my mind but  then I was totally blank-out

and can't continue with it .

Few  weeks ago, when I was re-packing our house for painting,

I found the thumbdrive which I kept a story written few years back,

The fiction story which I written, was only half of the whole story 

and it given to a FB friend, she is a popular scriptwriter. 

During that period, I was uncertain of my own health.

So I sent out my halfway story to her, 
which been writing for quite sometimes.

It was a waste,  if I just leave it or delete it away.

It was a gift to her and she can do whatever she want .

Maybe I am not up to the standard, or maybe

it already ended up in the “trash basket” long time ago.

Now I have these greed of writing fiction stories again.

I will continue the  "given" story and finish the other half .

I hope She don't mind with me.

Or hope I do not create any “trouble" to her.

I took “back” the story and continue the remainder half.

I will try my best to make my fiction stories goes on.

《 Just click on the Lotus flower picture can direct to Novel showcase》

閑談 -- 李门環

这期乐透 的奖金 累积的很高  只被一个人领走！

同事们都在羡慕 也在幻想若是自己 那该多好

有的要买屋子、有的买店铺、 有的要买车等！

为什么 财神 就偏偏不找上我们嘞？

我对同事们说  不能怨天尤人，
能中这么大笔横财是他  今生命里所带来的。

我便和同事 诉说了一个故事  那是我年少时 看过一部戏

老一辈 尤其是福建人 众所周知的一出戏 叫《李门環》

门环

《李门環》

故事是说一户富家员外 有三个千金  大女儿 和二女儿都嫁有钱人家

三女儿玉姬 却选着嫁给 一个有志气的人 是个 卖田鸡（水鸡）的老实人李不直！

最漂亮的小女儿拒绝所有亲事，并对张员外说：「我想嫁给有志气的人，
没钱也没关系。」员外好生气。
这时家门口来了一个卖田鸡的穷小子李不直，张员外山就对他说：
「我决定把女儿嫁给你。」李不直回答：「别拿我穷开心，不买东西我就走了。」
三小姐觉得李不直气宇不凡，便决定嫁给他。

结婚后虽然生活很苦，玉姬却没有怨言。有一天，李不值到山上捕捉田鸡，
经过一座山丘，看见有只田鸡跳进山丘一个小洞里

他便伸手进到洞里去抓 却抓了一块元宝出来，李不值 雀跃万分
心想洞里因该还有更多元宝，又想伸手进洞里去，
这回洞口 有条蛇将头伸出来，吓住了李不值。
突然间山丘出现了一位老人家，老人对他说：这些元宝是属《李门环〉的，
你只能拿一块去 说完老人转身便消失了。

一年后，玉姬生了儿子带回去给外公看，小孩一直哭闹  张员外抱着外孙里外走遍，
小孩就是大哭，来到大门外，他顺手敲敲门上的铜环来逗逗孙儿，
奇怪小孩居然笑了，于是就说：「你就叫李门环吧。」

回家后的李不值  觉得李门环三个字很熟悉，这名字好像在哪儿听过 
忽然想起去年在山丘  那位老人家  便赶紧和妻子抱着孩子到山丘去。

李不值 手里抱着儿子绕着山丘喊道：土地公！ 土地公！李门环来了！李门环来了！

顿时 土地公 便出现了。土地公将手槐在山丘一挥 元宝都变到李不值家中。

虽然得到元宝，他们还是勤俭过生活。隔年，张员外过大寿时，李不直穿旧衣，提一篮鱼和田螺去祝寿，吃饭时大女婿故意说：「我家的田太多了，想卖掉一些。」二女婿也跟着说：「我家也是耶！」李不直就说：「我想买田，你们卖给我。」大家都笑他疯了，大女婿就边写契约边说：「那我们就用半价五千两卖给你，你买得起吗？」李不直签了约后，就拿出放在鱼和田螺底下的元宝，这时大家都吓呆了，李不直还把买田剩下的元宝送给岳父当寿礼。

从此夫妻俩就努力经营田地，一家三口过着幸福的日子。

分享 -- 《哇！实在太赞了！》

退休之后  才学会欣赏潮剧  尤其看到小朋友所演出的潮剧

真得令人佩服到 五体投地。
要能舞！能演！能唱！尤其是唱腔 要记得整组戏的歌和词等
不像一般 流行歌曲或民谣 短短的 那几分钟一首歌  那么简单。
哇！实在太赞了！

**Its really Amazing for the young actor and actress to sing so well,                                                 and mutual performing on stage with dancing and to memerise                                                     all the verses of the songs and steps.   AWESOME!

The young maid ( Tao Hua )is going to fetch her mistress home and has to
travel by boat with the Old boat man whom they know each other.
The Old boat man want her to sing him a Song as to exchange for the boat fare.
But half way thru her singing, the boat man teasing her with the song she sung,
she was angry and challenging him with songs with verses 12 months climate.
The old man never admit  his wrong on the verses of song he sung.






台上三分钟  台下 三年功！


A man (Li) met a lady ghost  in a hotel room.
His friend, a hotel worker tricked Li to stay in the haunted room.
He was so scared but after listen to the spirit told him her story.
She was an orphan at young age, her relative sold to the Brothel.
She met a man who wanted to marry her and left with him to
another province,  the bad guy stole all her wealth and left her
alone sick in the hotel room, she was devastate and end her life there.
Li, willing to help her out of the room to take revenge on the bad guy.
Her spirit were hidden under the umbrella ,  then they can travel together .

**Both teenagers, the actor and actress was performing so well ,                                                       especially the young girl sing so well.

A young lad (Son of an Army General ) went for hunting with two army retinues.

A wounded rabbit was shot by him , went disappeared near a well .

A poor lady fetching water from the well was scare by his two retinues.

The benevolent  young lad tried to talk to the lady, why was she fetching water

 during such cold weather and wearing so thin clothing as it was Winter time.

But, the lady was so shock to see the young man look like her missing husband   

which has left her 16 years ago. 

She keep looking at young lad, as she also longing for her son too.

Her strange behavior adding to his curiosity,  the young man start asking about her family.

She was a well-off family daughter, who married to a poor and homeless young man. He was forced to leave her for the army after her parent died and she was pregnant then.

After  her parent passed away, her brother and his Vicious wife forcing her to get re-married to a rich guy whereby arranged by them, but she rejected and stand firm for her husband to return.

They make her fetch 300 pails of water each day from a distant well and has to grind wheat to flour at the mill  every night.

She been suffering for sixteen years and longing for her husband and son to return one day.

Her son was born at the mill hut and was thrown into a pond but luckily he was save by her neighbor, which also sent the newborn baby to the father at the army base.  But they both never return to her after all these years.

To his surprise and disbelief that the poor lady might be his own maternal mother, as his father's name and his name was mentioned by the poor lady.

His age and the poor lady’s  son are the same. 

He was so confusing , dare not to identify to her as he has a lovely mother at home.

He told the poor lady to write a letter to her husband and he will help her to search for her husband and son, she was so delighted and wrote the letter with her own blood and a piece of cloth tear from her sleeve as the rural area has no paper nor pen.

【to be continue 。。。。。。。。。。with later part of the story( 回书）
  and I will write in the chinese version too if I have the times.】

The young lad went home with the cloth letter which written in blood from the lady he met.
His father, a Great General honoured by the Emperor, was keen of what his young son
has got from his hunting. He told his father about the lady at the well site.
And what the poor lady told him about her own story.
His General father was surprise of the lady name was mention, and asked his for the lady's husband name. And he told his son there are people has the same name afterall.

His cautious son shown him the cloth letter written with blood, he was horrified , the lady was exactly his previous wife. And he

佛學班 -- 六字真言頌 (中文含字幕)

师父说 我们单元五  明年要上台领 "毕业" 证书 还需要表演！

哈！哈！真有点 那个 。。。。。。尴尬咧。。

虽然大伙同班了 两年多  说实在地 也不是很“熟系” 那种关系。

几个同学说要表演 唱歌 。。。。。哦。。天呀！唱歌。。

当然是佛歌曲啦， 不可能唱流行歌曲吧?

那天 有位男同学说  他可以和音 他不会唱歌

这番话到激发  我连想到 《六字真言颂》

我来找班长 商量  不如大家来合唱这首 《六字真言颂》佛曲.

找一个主唱  然后其他同学就和音。。。。

班上十多位同学，一人唱一行 ，也就不用背那么长的歌词

嗡玛尼巴美吽......部分就由 大伙一起 合唱 和用手拍出旋律。

可惜 班长说 这首六字真言颂 今年的毕业班先唱了。

只好再选选别的囖。。。哎。。要好听旋律又轻快的 

真的很难找 咧。。。。。。。还好 时间上还很充足啦。

閑談 -- 又是個失眠夜。

農曆四月和我對衝！每一年的這個月份，我都很小心翼翼，但還是避不了很多不如意。真的很郁悶。

又是一個失眠夜，凌晨3點鐘了，我還坐在電腦前，無所事事，故事寫不了，煩事多的
不得了。很久沒有 “ 失眠 ” 了。
爲了 自己 的 “健康”， 好久沒那麽拼命，沒日沒夜地【寫】。最近卻頻頻 “ 失眠 ” 了。

坐也不是，睡也不是，做也不是，隨着也不是，聼也不是，不聼也不是，鬱悶的發慌。
講也不是，不講也不是，敞開心房也不對，不敞開心房也有錯。。。都不是，唉。。

網上常常有老人傢，活到百多嵗，吃什麽能那麽長壽，唬！我恨不得快點結束，

自殺！不，佛門子弟是不能自殺，自殘吧！不死，只會累己也會累到他人。

還是，等待死亡的請帖駕到，我只求走的安詳，最好，一覺永別。

人活太老，實在很辛苦，不求長命百歲，只求沒有病痛，不要拖累他人。

我知道，一個月很快會過去，那種鬱悶的日子，卻令人無法度過的每一天。

我正在聽歌，夜深人靜，這旋律很舒服，

這是首 “情歌 ” ，我不爲情，只是覺得歌詞的 “含義 ” 和 旋律 可以 表達
此時此刻的情緒。

我有一簾幽夢 不知與誰能共

多少秘密在其中 欲訴無人能懂
窗外更深露重 今夜落花成塚
春來春去俱無蹤 徒留一簾幽夢
誰能解我情衷 誰將柔情深種
若能相知又相逢 共此一簾幽夢
窗外更深露重 今夜落花成塚
春來春去俱無蹤 徒留一簾幽夢